After very long break thought it’s better to come back with what I love to do, but exactly don’t know what made me to write this. It might because I feel the dawn of the final seven weeks of the academic year 2016.
Some of you might end your undergraduate life within the next few months time, some of you might be in your third, second or the first year. In my case I am in my second year. So I am still not in a position to think about the last day of my university. But I’ll be missing few of my seniors by the end of this year. As they took the best out of me most of the time and taught me a lot about the life, I was always happy with their safe company in the past years.
But one final point I’ve realized is that I’ll be missing them. Yes it’s bit sad but still manageable. Because they didn’t come to the lectures with you, they didn’t keep your chair reserved at the lecture hall till you come and there’s lot more. They might have done a lot but not always next to you. So again I could say it’s manageable. But if you have that feeling of missing the person who is always next to you in every lecture drowsing as they sit on the next chair?
In my story I definitely know that I’ll be missing my best friends by the end of this semester as we’ll be separated in to different departments. Since our interests are bit different from each other, we will probably select our own different paths.
Since the first days of the university we were guided to work as one group, as one batch and I am sure you have that list of contacts of the whole batch on your phone. But I don’t think you would say NO to this. How much numbers do we have? How much do we know about our colleagues? We used to have the company of few closest friends around us. If some of you say NO to my point and if you say that you are a close friend of every one of the batch, you are an exceptional person and I respect you for that.
As in average what I’ve seen in the university is clusters of close friends. I am not saying you don’t know anything about a friend from another gang. You might know nothing apart from these common wordings ,
“Good Morning!”
“Did you write the report?I didn’t even touch it”
“Done with the lectures?”
“How was the exam?”
I don’t think you used to talk alot with a friend from another gang. Honestly this was the scenario with me and I know probably 50% of you would be the same. Okay what do you all think ???? Is it a problem with you and me?
NO i don’t think so.
In my point of view that’s same with all the faculties of any of the universities. Once I had a chat with one of my seniors in the medical faculty, she said that they used to be so close only with the students in the same clinical group.
So it happen when group of people meet frequently in the lectures and practicals or else if they are supposed to work in one research group they will cluster together. In accordance to the modern trend, many of your selfies were taken with them. When the facebook notifications come to share your memories one year ago or two years ago then again it’s with your closest bunch of friends in the university (you might get memories apart from the university)
But one time we all realize we will be missing ourselves.
If you are a final year student who’s working so hard with the research or else if you are becoming a real book nerd in order to sit for the finals while missing all the group work (including studying sessions, dub-mashes , field visits and group photos) you definitely know what I am talking about.
So this is halfway applicable for all the science faculty second years as they’ll be dividing in to different areas at the end of this semester. If your entire gang gets selected to one particular course, you will feel this little bit later. Probably when you’ll be graduating. But if you get on to different fields you will experience this sooner.
This is one experience that we all face in the university. But talking about the entire life there’s nothing much different. You have already missed your school life, teachers and besties there!
If you are an outstation person you might already miss your parents and siblings as you’ve boarded here. You might miss your ex or else your crush who was in many of your dreams.
If you have both of your parents alive you are really blessed. But I know half you have already lost one of them or in very sad scenarios you lost them both. But we have to realize there’ll be a day that we’ll be permanently missing our parents.
Moreover you will miss your husband or wife someday and the kids too. So what’s life.??? What do you all think ?? Am I supposed to say it’s all about missing??NO I’D NEVER.
It’s not all about missing, but life make us miss our loved ones, it’s our choice to make a worth miss! Then no matter how much you miss the person, you have enough things stored in your memory to keep them still close with you!
I don’t know what’s your situation!!! I don’t know how long it’s still left for you to end your university life.
Final year or the first year or whatever…
You will miss your university life one day, but make sure to make it a WORTH MISS, before you feel that you’ve already missed it !!!!!! <3
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