What makes a book powerful? The lasting impact it leaves on its readers. Becoming by Michelle Obama is one of those books; so powerful it feels like a gentle push to grow, to strive, to be better.
But before I start gushing about how amazing it is, let me give you the gist of the story.
Synopsis
In a life packed with meaning and milestones, Michelle Obama has risen to become one of the most iconic women of our time. As the first African American First Lady of the United States, she redefined the role by fostering inclusivity, advocating for healthier living, championing women’s and girls’ rights worldwide, and balancing all of this while raising two daughters under an unforgiving media spotlight. From the South Side of Chicago to the most famous address in the world, Michelle’s journey is told with warmth, wit and honesty in her memoir.
Why I Loved It
I’ll admit it, before I read Becoming, I had this image of Michelle Obama as someone who probably had a golden path paved for her. I admired her but felt like her life might be worlds apart from mine. This book shattered that illusion. Michelle’s story is raw, real, and relatable. Her journey shows that even someone who’s walked through the White House doors can have moments of self-doubt.
She asks herself the question many of us grapple with; “Am I enough?” It’s humbling to know that someone as accomplished as Michelle struggled with self-worth. Growing up as a woman of color in a modest household, she had to face challenges that could have held her back. But she didn’t let them. She teaches us through her story that your circumstances don’t define you, it’s about how you rise above them. And, most importantly, you are enough, just as you are.
The Heart of Michelle’s Story
The thing about Michelle is that she’s not afraid to let you in. Reading her memoir feels like sitting down for a heart-to-heart with a friend over coffee. She shares her triumphs, insecurities, and everything in between. From being a fiercely ambitious young woman to balancing her identity as a wife, mother and First Lady, Michelle’s honesty makes her incredibly relatable.
Her parents deserve a standing ovation, too. Fraser and Marian Robinson instilled in Michelle and her brother Craig the values of education, integrity, and resilience. Fraser’s perseverance despite his multiple sclerosis and Marian’s strength shaped Michelle’s character, teaching her to stand up for her beliefs and work tirelessly for her goals. That unwavering support acted as a shield, helping her rise above tough circumstances. And that love and guidance shine through in every chapter.
From an early age, Michelle displayed a determination to excel academically, attending Princeton University and later Harvard Law School. Yet, she never forgot her roots. Her drive to give back, from mentoring young people to advocating for community projects, was fueled by her upbringing in a close-knit family.
More Than a Memoir
Sure, it’s a rags-to-riches story, but Becoming is more about resilience and growth. Michelle takes us through her journey; being the driven girl from Chicago, her partnership with Barack, and life in the spotlight. She doesn’t shy away from the hard stuff either, like the strain of balancing motherhood and the presidency, or the toll it took on her personally. Yet, she remained grounded, always staying true to who she was.
And yes, there are political aspects, it’s hard not to have them when you’ve been the First Lady, but the book never feels like a political agenda. It’s more about empowering you to own your story and use your voice.
Why You Should Read (or Listen to) This Book
Becoming is available as an audiobook, narrated by Michelle herself. Imagine hearing her story in her own voice, it’s like she’s right there with you, sharing her journey. Whether you’ve experienced discrimination, struggled to find your footing, or simply want to keep evolving, this book will resonate with you.
Gems from Becoming:
“If you don’t get out there and define yourself, you’ll be quickly and inaccurately defined by others.”
“For me, becoming isn’t about arriving somewhere or achieving a certain aim. I see it instead as forward motion, a means of evolving, a way to reach continuously toward a better self. The journey doesn’t end.”
“Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result. It’s a vulnerability that breeds with self-doubt and then is escalated, often deliberately, by fear.”
“At fifty-four, I am still in progress, and I hope that I always will be.”
“Dominance, even the threat of it, is a form of dehumanization. It’s the ugliest kind of power.”
Reflections on Race and Identity
Michelle doesn’t shy away from discussing what it means to be an African American woman in predominantly white spaces. From facing racial stereotyping to dealing with unwarranted criticisms, her story reminds us of the resilience required to overcome such challenges. She writes: “Your story is what you have, what you will always have. It is something to own,” encouraging readers to embrace their unique journeys.
Her experiences in the public eye often exposed her to harsh scrutiny, yet she used these moments as opportunities to rise above the noise. Her work as First Lady, whether it was launching the “Let’s Move!” initiative, advocating for education, or creating a kitchen garden at the White House embodied her mission to inspire positive change.
A Glimpse Behind the Public Persona
Michelle’s candid moments; from her struggles with infertility to the sacrifices she made for her family and country, make her story relatable and human. Her commitment to ensuring a normal childhood for her daughters, Malia and Sasha, amidst the whirlwind of White House life, reflects the depth of her love and resilience as a mother.
One of the most touching parts of the book is when Michelle reflects on the partnership she and Barack share. Their relationship isn’t painted as a fairy tale but as a real, evolving partnership, one built on mutual respect, love, and a shared sense of purpose.
Final Thoughts
Michelle Obama’s Becoming isn’t just a memoir, it’s a call to action. It’s about taking control of your narrative, embracing growth, and realizing that your story is your power. As Michelle beautifully puts it: “It’s not about being perfect. It’s not about where you get yourself in the end. There’s power in allowing yourself to be known and heard, in owning your unique story, in using your authentic voice.”
We should be thankful to Michelle for sharing her story. It’s one we’ll carry with us for a long time. If you haven’t yet, pick up this book, or better yet, listen to her telling her story in her own words.
Written By: Eveesha Kaluarachchi
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